DATING TIPS-INTERNET DATING-YOUR FIRST EMAIL

After spotting the perfect profile on a dating site,you decide to get in contact.[You
sit before your computer and also open the email,typed the address of your recipient at the other end.  It's the moment of truth. But suddenly your mind is blank.You are not knowing what to do nor what to write.You are staring at the empty message.

Now what to do how to do it? Remember we are here to meet and know each other, and this email will be your first move in that direction.So make your best move.
1.In the beginning keep the tone light and friendly and warm.
2.Start by mentioning what the other has written in the profile.
3.If anything caught your attention in their profile be sure to mention it.
4.Use their own words, which will make them respond.
5.Ask questions about their interests,activities,life time goals.
6.Take honest interest in the other person.
7.Your aim should be to find someone who shares your interests and activities.
8.Introduce yourself first and go ask the relevant questions that will elicit the required response from them.
 
RAGHU NATRAJAN

DATING TIPS-DIFFERENT DATING TERMS

Dating is not an easy job to take it very lightly.[GNVET78PHY9R] It is indeed a tough task at hand, involving time and hard work, to succeed in dating game.There a few terms to describe them, as they are practised.

1)Dating
Dating is basically getting to know somebody in all different kinds of environments,and to see if they're compatible with you,and the possibility of a relationship as life partner.It involves taking them out.

2)Hooking up
It is just two people meeting to have sex.There is no commitment whatsoever.The term is used to denote an sexual meeting.

3)Casual romantic relationship
In a casual relationship,there are no expectations. You go to places, and have a good time.

4)Serious romantic relationship.
Here there are expectations. There is a certain amount of seriousness,rules to follow. For instance, in a serious relationship you can't date other people and you have to be more reliable and responsible.
5)Soul mate
A soul mate is somebody that is just there for you.A person with whom you can interact on all levels.Literally a person you can use as a punching bag.

6)Player
It is somebody who is out there to attract as many people as possible and not very serious about romantic relationships.Anyone getting involved with such a person has himself/herself to blame.

7)Friends with benefits.
It says you have a good friend, good understanding with you, and have benefits out of it-they are ,often, including sexual benefits.

8)Internet/Online dating.
It is dating done online.Through a site on the Internet that's specifically for finding a mate/date,you choose one among the list of people that they have,and contact them through this site. After e-mail,phone contact if you find the person to your liking then you arrange for a date.

9)Speed dating.
Speed dating is where a person meats numerous individual people at different times at a particular arranged place, for,let's say at 5 minute intervals.In that period of time each person can write down their opinion about the other.So by the end of the evening  everyone will have met everyone else. Afterwards, there is an exchange of phone numbers,with whom they like or attracted to.This is an easy way to find a date.


Raghu Natrajan

DATING HELP-OVERCOME YOUR WORRIES ABOUT FIRST DATE?

It's natural to worry about what your first date will be like?.GNVET78PHY9R][ Will you like him, and more importantly, will he like you too? Read his body language to figure out how much he likes you.


LOOK FOR THESE

The roving eyes.

When we first meet a person we are attracted to, our eyes will start to measure the other person. It will travel from eyes to lips and back to eyes of the person we are attracted to. A sure sign is when his eye will rove more over the  body.This is his way of checking you out.
Following your body posture.

If someone really likes you, he will unconsciously try to replicate your body language. If he likes you, and you're sitting with your body tilted forward, then your date will also do so. It signifies interest and attraction.

The touch test

If you are attracted to a man, all you have to do is touch his hand, arm or shoulder. Usually, if he are attracted to you, he will return the touch within no time.

Watch the Eyebrow 

If you attract him, his eyebrows will rise. It will be for a fleeting movement.If you catch him doing this, he's definitely made up his mind about you.

Hiding you from others.

If he stands or sits in a way which keeps you hidden from others in the room or hall it is a sure sign that he is attracted to you.Body language rarely lies.
If you like him don't wait furthur and make your move right away.


Raghu Natrajan.