DATING TIPS-INTERNET DATING-YOUR FIRST EMAIL

After spotting the perfect profile on a dating site,you decide to get in contact.[You
sit before your computer and also open the email,typed the address of your recipient at the other end.  It's the moment of truth. But suddenly your mind is blank.You are not knowing what to do nor what to write.You are staring at the empty message.

Now what to do how to do it? Remember we are here to meet and know each other, and this email will be your first move in that direction.So make your best move.
1.In the beginning keep the tone light and friendly and warm.
2.Start by mentioning what the other has written in the profile.
3.If anything caught your attention in their profile be sure to mention it.
4.Use their own words, which will make them respond.
5.Ask questions about their interests,activities,life time goals.
6.Take honest interest in the other person.
7.Your aim should be to find someone who shares your interests and activities.
8.Introduce yourself first and go ask the relevant questions that will elicit the required response from them.
 
RAGHU NATRAJAN

DATING TIPS-DIFFERENT DATING TERMS

Dating is not an easy job to take it very lightly.[GNVET78PHY9R] It is indeed a tough task at hand, involving time and hard work, to succeed in dating game.There a few terms to describe them, as they are practised.

1)Dating
Dating is basically getting to know somebody in all different kinds of environments,and to see if they're compatible with you,and the possibility of a relationship as life partner.It involves taking them out.

2)Hooking up
It is just two people meeting to have sex.There is no commitment whatsoever.The term is used to denote an sexual meeting.

3)Casual romantic relationship
In a casual relationship,there are no expectations. You go to places, and have a good time.

4)Serious romantic relationship.
Here there are expectations. There is a certain amount of seriousness,rules to follow. For instance, in a serious relationship you can't date other people and you have to be more reliable and responsible.
5)Soul mate
A soul mate is somebody that is just there for you.A person with whom you can interact on all levels.Literally a person you can use as a punching bag.

6)Player
It is somebody who is out there to attract as many people as possible and not very serious about romantic relationships.Anyone getting involved with such a person has himself/herself to blame.

7)Friends with benefits.
It says you have a good friend, good understanding with you, and have benefits out of it-they are ,often, including sexual benefits.

8)Internet/Online dating.
It is dating done online.Through a site on the Internet that's specifically for finding a mate/date,you choose one among the list of people that they have,and contact them through this site. After e-mail,phone contact if you find the person to your liking then you arrange for a date.

9)Speed dating.
Speed dating is where a person meats numerous individual people at different times at a particular arranged place, for,let's say at 5 minute intervals.In that period of time each person can write down their opinion about the other.So by the end of the evening  everyone will have met everyone else. Afterwards, there is an exchange of phone numbers,with whom they like or attracted to.This is an easy way to find a date.


Raghu Natrajan