KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FLIRTATION AND SEDUCTION
Flirtation is simply a way of making someone feel so good that they are attracted to you and want to be around you.
Seduction is taking flirtation to a level up, where you are setting out to achieve a conscious goal - that can be in a sexual sense, or simply about achieving a status when you enter into a relationship. Seduction can also be used in the workplace to get the results required in negotiations. Once you realise the power of seduction, you can apply it to all areas of your life:
KNOW WHO YOU ARE BEFORE TRYING TO SEDUCE SOMEONE
Until you know who you are and are comfortable with that, it’s difficult to set about seducing someone with any conviction.It’s often said that confidence is the sexiest attribute one can possess, and it’s true that people are naturally drawn to those who are comfortable in their own self. Make sure you’re happy with what you are wearing, your hairstyle and make-up, and feeling calm and happy. It’s much easier to seduce a
man when you are at ease with yourself and have a sense of your own personality.
MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL
Giving attention is the ultimate seduction technique. It can be quite subtle, but it’s all about creating an intimacy to make that man feel special. If it’s someone you don’t know, begin with eye contact, then start a
conversation and adapt your body language. If it’s someone you’re in a relationship with and want to add some seductive sparkle, then start with the same approach: pretend you are getting to know them for the first time.Try to learn new things about that person, however long you’ve been together.Don’t be overbearing,be in a happy, relaxed attitude. Making a man feel like there’s nothing else more interesting in the world than him is a sure way in the art of seduction.
GROOMING IS ESSENTIAL
Subtle, simple make-up is important. Men don’t like to know what’s underneath it. Over make-up may become messy and gets in the way,which men really don’t like. See that your hair is soft and shiny, apply a soft lotion or oil on to your skin so it’s smooth and silky to the touch. Neat and tidy nails without any rough edges are much more appealing. Choose your fragrance carefully,in confirmity to your body odor.Perfume simply masks who you really are: men are genetically programmed to love the natural scent of a woman’s skin — even if women aren’t aware of it.
WEAR THE RIGHT CLOTHES AND SHOES
Most women have an outfit that makes them feel sexy:Be sure it dresses your contours. Wear the right underwear, too. You need to show off your bottom or your bust and know what your assets are: men like the obvious features of a woman’s body. Don’t stop making an effort to wear seductive clothing just because you’ve been in a relationship for a while: Take the trouble to wear your man’s favourit outfit. Take him by surprise when he gets home from work one evening.
GIVE THE AIR OF SEXUAL POSSIBILITY
Make men to feel there is the possibility of physicality. If your idea of romance is a night dinner, make him aware that a more appealing prospect of a delicious dish - you - is waiting to be served for afters. If you are looking to seduce a new partner, make him know subtly the possibility of physical intimacy without being overtly sexual. Keep an air of mystery to your seduction:
DON’T APPEAR DESPERATE
You mustn’t chase too hard. Make yourself attractive by being as gorgeous as you can in your own self.
Seducing a man is about making him want to chase you. The women who find it hard to seduce a man impose a long, demanding list of requirements: the ones who seduce with ease are the ones who come with an air of mystery.
When he's least expecting it, tell your man you need some change. Then stick your hand in his pocket and touch his penis through the fabric, pretending that you're really digging around for that coinage you need.When he's good and hard, whisper something in his ear like, I think you are glad to see me?
Strut Your Stuff
When you go out with your man, wear your sexiest outfit. Sometimes you have to remind your guy "How you look". It really turns most guys on, when they realise that someother men want to be with. And it can be a tremendous ego boost for you, too. When you feel sexy, you are horny. On return to home, you won't be able to keep your hands off each other.
Feed food
Have a romantic dinner by feeding each other. There's something sensual about placing food in your partner's mouth. After a meal like this, serve yourself for dessert.
Love Your Body
Look at yourself naked in a full-length mirror and focus on what you love about your body. Alternatively dry your hair while standing naked in front of the mirror. By getting used to your unique shape, you'll gain confidence that will naturally spill over into your sex life.
Together in the Tub
Before lovemaking take a bath together. Bring out the fluffy towels, then add some drops of patchouli oil,
sandalwood oil, and lavender oil into your bathwater. Patchouli and sandalwood are awakeners of sensuality, and lavender induces relaxation. The combination of scents and warm-water will completely prime your
bodies — and minds.
Screw technique
Try the oral-sex technique “The Screw.” As you're moving up his shaft with your mouth, turn your head a bit from side to side, letting your tongue follow a corkscrew pattern. When you get to the frenulum — that part of the shaft just beneath the head — be sure to lick it for a few seconds before moving all the way up to the top. Then repeat, moving down his shaft. What will drive him wild about this is that you aren't just going up and down — you're also going sideways.
Use His Penis
As a pre-sex routine try pressing his penis against surprising parts of your body.Hold his penis against your inner thigh to tease him like crazy; touch the tip of his penis against your breast, and rub his enulum against your nipple; or bring the side of his shaft against the outside of one of your cheeks, then put it up to your lips and cover it with wet kisses.Rub your breasts against his penis and he'll happily rise to the occasion.
Massage Him
If you have time,give your man a massage without using your hands.Undress your partner, then, keeping your hands at your side or behind your back, stroke his body (all except for his penis) with your face, hair, and breasts.
Slip into a Naughty Costume
Try different outfits since they'll help you get into the mood. If you want to flirt,put on asexy lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail.If want to behave as a schoolgirl wear plaid miniskirt with a shirt. To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace. Outfits not only help you get into the mood, they also give him a visual turn-on and inspiration.
Pleasure His Penis
Cup your hand around his member,then kiss the part of his penis that's exposed while breathing hard. Your hand will trap your exhalations and make his penis feel superhot. With your other hand, work his testicles. He'll think he in heaven.
Keep Your Pants On
Encourage your man to touch you when you have your favorite tight jeans on (and don't let him take them off). His hand can glide over your crotch more easily, and the material will transmit the sensations over a wider area.
Kiss often
Share a passionate 10-second kiss every single day. A lot of couples keep having sex but stop really kissing.
It's such a wonderful, intimate act. So just go up and lay one on him. Instantly, you'll feel passionate instead of platonic.
Touch a (Sensual) Nerve
One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. If he flinches, give the area firmer kisses.
Have Hotel Sex at Home
Try re-creating the away-from-home atmosphere in your own bedroom. You'll both feel like you're
on an incredible vacation from the rest of the world.
Keep Your Eyes Open
Watching his every move while you’re hooking up is a great way to explore more of the emotional side of intercourse. Start by kissing with your eyes open and looking at each other during foreplay. Gradually build up until you can sustain eye contact throughout both of your climaxes. You'll experience your orgasm in a totally different way.
Tune in to His Heartbeat
You might be surprised how easily you can become synchronized. Lay your hand on his chest, and have him do the same. Since heart rate speeds up during orgasm, if you stay hand-to-heart connected while you do it, you'll feel how wild you're driving each other.
Use Props
Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow.
Moan Loudly!
Moan and you will doing him a favor The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe.
Just Add Lube
Your guy has what it takes to get you off. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. And because you're wetter, he’ll feel more confident, which will inspire him to try new moves and positions.
Turn-Around... and Turn Him On
Face his legs instead of his face when you're on top. (Hold on to his feet for balance.) He'll get a great view of your backside — a surefire turn-on. And if his erection points straight out instead of up, this position will feel especially incredible to him.
Be the Boss in Bed
Tell your guy to lie down, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. Next, you want to torture him playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad. Once he’s pleaded his case allow him to take over.
Don't Wait to Exhale
You can actually use your breath to control your orgasm. With each exhalation, imagine that you're pushing the satisfying sensations throughout your body — instead of just letting them build up below the waist. When you finally let go, you'll feel the orgasm from head to toe.
Maximize Each Moment
Try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of your normal speed. You and your guy will have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensation over a longer period of time, your orgasms will likely be out of this world.
