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Saturday, March 13, 2010

DATING TIPS-HOW AND WHEN TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE


If you like someone, but don't know how to proceed further, let the following tips help you make the first move and get that kiss.

1: Read body signals.

Before starting any kind of move, look for  clues such as prolonged eye contact which will help you judge  whether you'll get a positive response. A woman may  willingly  expose certain areas of her body like her neck or wrists. She may touch you, or adjust her looks by gestures. On the other hand a man may exhibit   ownership gestures, to impress a potential mate. These may include resting an arm on the back of her chair,
expanding his chest or widening his shoulders. Both sexes may  subconsciously copy the actions of the other person's body positions.

2: Conversation

If they find someone attractive, men and women won't necessarily say what they're really thinking. Instead of they may openly and deliberately start speaking in suggestive ways.So concentrate on how it is being said.

3: If the woman is making the first move.

The male is readily available. Approach with  curious hands. Search every part of the body. Be carefull while choosing topics for conversation,since the  mention of ex-boyfriends, health problems, or your eager desire for babies,will without dought create problems in begninning itself.

4: If the man is making the first move.

The female is mysterious, enticing, but has be approached with caution  Intimate parts of the body,such as breasts and backside should not be touched initially,  Instead,  touch less intimate areas of the body- such as the upper arm, or the outer leg nearest to you.

5: The Award the kiss.

If they haven't stoped your advances so far, then you can be  confident enough to  kiss.  Maintain eye contact, lean in and pause when your faces are close, to allow the other person  to  hopefully, lean in too.


Raghu Natrajan.

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