SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FLIRTATION AND SEDUCTION 

Flirtation is simply a way of making someone feel so good that they are attracted to you and want to be around you.

Seduction is taking flirtation to a level up, where you are setting out to achieve a conscious goal - that can be in a sexual sense, or simply about achieving a status when you enter into a relationship. Seduction can also be used in the workplace to get the results required in negotiations. Once you realise the power of seduction, you can apply it to all areas of your life:

KNOW WHO YOU ARE BEFORE TRYING TO SEDUCE SOMEONE

Until you know who you are and are comfortable with that, it’s difficult to set about seducing someone with any conviction.It’s often said that confidence is the sexiest attribute one can possess, and it’s true that people are naturally drawn to those who are comfortable in their own self. Make sure you’re happy with what you are wearing,  your hairstyle and make-up, and  feeling calm and happy. It’s much easier to seduce a
man when you are at ease with yourself and have a sense of your own personality.

MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL

Giving  attention is the ultimate seduction technique. It can be quite subtle, but it’s all about creating an intimacy to make that man feel special. If it’s someone you don’t know, begin with eye contact, then start a
conversation and adapt your body language. If it’s someone you’re in a relationship with and want to add some seductive sparkle, then start with the same approach: pretend you are getting to know them for the first time.Try to learn new things about that person, however long you’ve been together.Don’t be overbearing,be in a happy, relaxed attitude. Making a man feel like there’s nothing else more interesting in the world than him is a sure way in the art of seduction.
GROOMING IS ESSENTIAL

Subtle, simple make-up is important. Men don’t  like to know what’s underneath it. Over make-up may become messy and gets in the way,which men really don’t like. See that your hair is soft and shiny,  apply a  soft lotion or oil on to your skin so it’s smooth and silky to the touch. Neat and tidy nails without any rough edges are much more appealing. Choose your fragrance carefully,in confirmity to your body odor.Perfume simply masks who you really are: men are genetically programmed to love the natural scent of a woman’s skin — even if women aren’t aware of it.


WEAR THE RIGHT CLOTHES AND SHOES

Most women have an outfit that makes them feel sexy:Be sure it dresses your contours. Wear the right underwear, too. You need to show off your bottom or your bust and know what your assets are: men like the obvious features of a woman’s body.  Don’t stop making an effort to wear seductive clothing just because you’ve been in a relationship for a while: Take the trouble to wear your man’s favourit outfit. Take him by surprise when he gets home from work one evening.

GIVE THE AIR OF SEXUAL POSSIBILITY

Make men to feel there is the possibility of physicality. If your idea of romance is a night dinner, make him aware that a more appealing prospect of a delicious dish - you - is waiting to be served for afters. If you are looking to seduce a new partner, make him know subtly the  possibility of physical intimacy without being overtly sexual.  Keep an air of mystery to your seduction:

DON’T APPEAR DESPERATE 

You mustn’t chase too hard. Make yourself attractive by being as gorgeous as you can in your own self.
Seducing a man is about making him want to chase you. The women who find it hard to seduce a man impose a long, demanding list of requirements: the ones who seduce with ease are the ones who come with an air of mystery.

Raghu Natrajan